The Talk
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How to stay curious about someone you already know
The longer you love someone, the more you think you know them. Their rhythms, their habits, the way they reach for you in the dark. You can predict the small...
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6 intimacy-building exercises to keep the spark alive
Every long-term relationship eventually moves past the rush of the beginning. The early spark… that thrilling mix of novelty and anticipation gives way to something quieter, more stable and often,...
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What we talk about when we talk about “chemistry”
We’ve all said it…there was chemistry. Or maybe, there just wasn’t. It’s the phrase we reach for when logic fails, when attraction feels too complex to name. But what do...
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The rise of the female gaze
For decades, cinema taught us what desire should look like and it almost always looked the same. A woman’s body framed in fragments, observed rather than felt. The camera lingered,...
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Why we romanticize emotional unavailability
We all know the story. The one who keeps you guessing. The late replies. The almosts. The people who say I’m not good at relationships and somehow become the very...
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The seduction of red lipstick
There are few objects in history as small yet as powerful as a tube of red lipstick. It’s one of the simplest beauty products - just pigment, wax and oil...
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9 songs that taught us about sex
Before we learned about sex through experience, we learned it through sound. Through lyrics we didn’t fully understand, videos that blurred the line between fantasy and reality, and melodies that...
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Pillow Talk with Persia Notarberardino
We are delighted to introduce you to Persia Notarberardino (she/her) – a Sydney-based model and creative whose presence is as intentional as it is magnetic. A Scorpio at heart, Persia...
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What a vibrating ring actually does: a beginner’s guide
Vibrating rings are one of those toys you often hear about but might not fully understand until you’ve tried one. Simple in design yet surprisingly versatile, they’re created to enhance...
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Talking to your partner about trying a vibrating ring
Bringing something new into your sex life can feel exciting and a little intimidating. Even if you’re curious about vibrating rings, the thought of suggesting it to a partner might...
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The politics of moaning
When we think about sex, sound often feels like a given - moans, gasps, sighs of pleasure. But how, when and why we make noise during sex is shaped by...
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The meaning of a hickey
A hickey is more than just a bruise. It’s a mark that lingers - a visible trace of a private moment, left on the body for the world to see....
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How to talk to your partner about introducing a vibrator
Talking about sex can be vulnerable - even in relationships where communication is strong and intimacy feels easy. There are some topics that still make people pause, and one of...
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The afterglow effect
There’s a reason sex can leave you feeling softer, closer, or more connected - not just in the moment, but hours or even days later. That feeling isn’t imagined and...
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Are you in love, or just in limerence?
You can’t stop thinking about them. Every message sends a rush through your body. Their absence feels like withdrawal. It’s intoxicating, consuming...even addictive. But is it love, or is it...
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Sex and sobriety: navigating intimacy as a recovering addict
Introducing In Touch - real stories, honest conversations and shared experiences from our community. Pleasure, connection, and sexuality are deeply personal. No two experiences are the same and there are...
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A guide to mirror play
Mirror play is an invitation to see yourself differently - to step into a space of self-discovery, sensuality, and confidence. It’s about cultivating intimacy with yourself, appreciating your body in...
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The fascinating history of the G-spot
We’ve all heard of the G-spot...that elusive, almost mythical part of the body said to hold the key to extraordinary pleasure. But behind the intrigue is a story that reflects...
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How to have safe sex online
The holiday season often brings people together, but it can also pull them apart - physically, at least. Between family obligations, Friendsmas gatherings, and work events, you might find yourself...
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What is cuffing season?
As the days get shorter and the air turns colder, the signs are unmistakable. Cosy couple shots flood social feeds, dating apps see a surge in swipes, and old flings...
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Navigating feelings for someone who isn’t your partner
Picture this: you’re in line for your morning coffee, and the barista’s smile lingers just a little longer than usual. Or maybe it’s the charming neighbour who always catches your...
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Creating space for meaningful connection
In our fast-paced, always-connected world, it’s easy to forget that true intimacy doesn’t just happen. It takes time, attention, and intention. Creating a space for meaningful connection isn’t about perfect...
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The psychology behind deep conversations: why they matter more than you think
When was the last time you had a conversation that felt more than just words? A conversation where you truly felt seen, heard, and understood? For many, moments of real...
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The art of emotional availability in relationships: why it’s key to lasting connection
Emotional availability—the art of being open, really listening, and showing empathy—is the bedrock of any lasting relationship. It’s what builds trust, closeness, and true intimacy, making both partners feel safe...
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Navigating intimacy and connection during IVF
Undergoing IVF is a deeply personal and often challenging journey, one that can test the foundations of even the strongest relationships. The process demands a level of emotional, physical, and...
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Why do so many of us fear intimacy?
Emotional intimacy—the kind that lets you connect deeply with someone—is something most of us crave but find hard to embrace. It demands vulnerability, which can feel daunting. If you’ve ever...
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‘Right person, wrong time’: unpacking the complexities of love and timing
We’ve all heard the phrase “right person, wrong time.” Some of us have probably even used it. But what does it really mean? Is it just a romanticised excuse for...
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A guide to exploring multiple orgasms
For those intrigued by the idea of more than one climax, exploring multiple orgasms offers a journey of self-discovery, connection, and a deeper understanding of your body’s rhythms. While multiple...
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Beyond monogamy: exploring consensual non-exclusivity
What once may have been considered ‘alternative’ arrangements have been gaining fierce popularity in recent years; you might even say polyamory has gone mainstream. Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is a catch-all...
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When did Halloween get so sexy?
Halloween has evolved over the years from an eerie celebration into a night filled with costumes, candy, and personal expression. Amid the ghosts and goblins, one trend consistently resurfaces: the...
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Understanding what it means to be intersex
You might recognise the term ‘intersex’ from the ‘I’ in LGBTQIA+, but its true meaning is often misunderstood. Intersex people are born with physical sex characteristics—such as chromosomes, gonads, hormone...
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Four LGBTQIA+ icons to celebrate this LGBT history month
October brings the cosy feel of autumn—pumpkin spice, Halloween festivities, and, most importantly, LGBT History Month. This is a time to honour LGBTQIA+ icons whose courage, creativity, and resilience have...
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Why are more women coming out later in life?
In recent years, more women—particularly in their 30s and 40s—are coming out as queer, catching the public’s attention and raising questions about timing, identity, and relationships. This shift is not...
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Wax play and massage candles 101: a beginner’s guide to LBDO Melt
If you’ve ever been curious about trying wax play or adding a massage candle to your intimate moments, you’re not alone. It’s an experience that heightens the senses and brings...
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Dating with a herpes diagnosis
Herpes is one of the most common sexually transmitted infections (STIs), yet the shame, fear and stigma remains. Up to 80% of Australian adults carry HSV1 (oral herpes or cold...
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When cheating hurts: how to heal
Dealing with romantic betrayal can feel overwhelming, confusing and painful. It’s natural to feel a deep sense of loss, and to start questioning your judgement and self-worth. It’s a tough...