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Doing his own thing - Kwesi’s self-discovery journey
Introducing In Touch - real stories, honest conversations and shared experiences from our community. Pleasure, connection, and sexuality are deeply personal. No two experiences are the same and there are...
The history of the word slut
It is always fascinating to look at the words society uses to police sexuality, because they almost never started out that way. Today, the word slut carries an immense amount...
When your phone becomes the third wheel, and what it does to intimacy
The bedside table should be a bit of a sanctuary; the final boundary between the day’s noise and the privacy of sleep. It’s where we keep the things that actually...
Is wanting to be desired the same as wanting sex?
They often get bundled together, but they are not the same thing. Wanting to be desired and wanting sex can overlap, sometimes neatly, sometimes messily. But they come from different...
The second adolescence: reclaiming the sexual self
In the traditional arc of life, adolescence is usually framed as a messy, hormone-fueled rite of passage - a blur of first crushes and the frantic construction of an identity....
Learning your body in a long-term relationship
In the quiet landscape of a long-term relationship, it’s easy to assume the map of our partner’s body - and our own - is fully charted. We fall into a...